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Question 12:

I'm 20 years old and I have fallen in love with my friend's ex-girlfriend Y. We used to chat and go out together. We were going steady as friends for 4 months and after I expressed my feelings to her, she said she needed some time to think about it. After a week, Y sent me a letter and told me that we were better off as friends or brother and sister. In this letter, Y said that we were happy together and she liked chatting with me on the phone. Y noticed that I care about her and am kind to her. I don't know why she won't accept me as her boyfriend. I really love her so much. Please give some advice.




Dear Tady,

Love is a two-way street. You cannot force someone to love you. I am not saying that at 20 you are too young to know true love but why don't you take the friendship that Y offers you and send your loving feelings to others who may be just waiting for you. As she is the ex-girlfriend of your friend maybe she is recovering from her own emotional problems. Give her time but you must extend your social scope and meet other girls. Enjoy your youth and freedom. Do not think that there is only one girl in the world for you - look around - enjoy yourself thoroughly before you decide to settle with one person.

The Love Guru,

Madam Zorra

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