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The Ears
The
ears govern the period of a child from birth to the age of 13. At
this stage, the face cannot be totally relied upon as it is
constantly changing. The ears can indicate if a child has a healthy
constitution or not and if his cries are due to anxiety or a
demanding character.
From
birth, the position, shape and interior formation of the ears are
well defined and are permanent.
For
a boy,the Dragon ear symbolises the child’s relationship to the
father and the Tiger ear, to the mother. The opposite is so for
girls. The ideal shape for ears is rounded, fleshy with free hanging
lobes. They should be positioned from eyebrow level to the base of
the nose. Ears that are close to the head expresses security, if
they stick out, they signify insecurity. Therefore, when looking at
the ears, it can indicate whom the child will be most attached to.
Or who can be the cause of the child insecurities and at what period
of his life.
Ideal
Shape Ears
If
both ears stick out or is badly formed, then the first 13 years of
the child’s life will be insecure due to unhappiness from both
parents. If they are close to the head and can hardly be seen from
the front then they are timid and lack inner strength.
The
position of ears also indicates the intelligence of the child. The
higher it is set, the greater the intelligent. If such ears reach to
the base of the nose then the child will attain success as well.
Ears
that are higher than the level of the eyebrows show that even though
the child is intelligent, he will be demanding and insensitive to the
feelings of others. If you have such a child and dance to his every
cry then you will be nurturing an egocentric individual who will
expect the same attention from everyone around him. Unfortunately,
this does not ensure his future happiness.
When
ears do not reach the level of the eyebrows they are considered low
set. This does not always indicate an inferior intellect but rather a
child who can be a late starter or one who lacks self-confidence. When
dealing with such a child, the parents must be more patient, tolerant
and refrain from trying to pressure the child too much thus creating a
mental block. It would be a disaster for parents to ridicule, demean
or compare such a child’s accomplishments to a more mentally advance
sibling or friend. Coaxing or reassurance can be more encouraging and
beneficial otherwise he will grow up to be an adult with major
inferiority complexes to deal with.
No
two ears are the same shape or set at the same level, but if both the
ears have negative traits then it can be predicted that the traumatic
passage of the first 13 years would have a profound effect of the
psyche of the child and serious attention has to be given to the
marriage of the couple.
Looking
from the side, the further back the ears are set the higher the
intellect. The closer to the front, the weaker the intellect. Such a
child might not be a straight “A” student but may excel in more
hands-on practical careers and studies.
Common
sense is indicated by ears that are well shaped, well positioned and
in proportion to the rest of the face. Extremely small ears indicate a
weak character that can be easily influenced. Such children should
have better parental guidance otherwise they will get into trouble due
to bad influences of friends, or even television programmes.
Controlled guidance should begin before he becomes a teenager.
Very
large ears indicate an unstable character that can be excessive in
negative qualities like greed and selfishness. Children with such ears
can grow up to be immature adults unless they are taught from young
how important it is to inter-relate with others. Using brute force and
harsh words can make matters worse and make such children even more
stubborn.
Square Ears
Square ears with
angular ear lobes are indicative of an aggressive and bullying
character. Although some child especially boy, show aggressive
tendencies when frustrated, it cannot go unchecked. Encourage
empathetic feelings when he exhibits such aggression by making him
realise the hurt he causes by being aggressive. However, if the
aggression is violent and is directed to pets and helpless siblings, a
more serious view has to be taken to uncover the seat of his anger
otherwise it will fester in him till adulthood, and become
increasingly more violent and can get out of control.
Other Characters
When
studying your child, do not always feel that your child is crying
because he is spoilt or being demanding. The psychology of a child is
so tender and delicate as it adjusts and develops. Just as a child can
believe in Fairies, Santa Claus and Dragons, so can a young child
believe that there are demons in the dark and that their dinosaurs
dolls can come to life and maul them when they are alone. Not taking
this into consideration, a parent can seriously damage a child’s
confidence and turn him into a nervous wreck full of anxiety and
stress.
Children
who have eyebrows that slope downwards at the end near the temples are
more prone to anxiety and distress. Frightening them with boogie-man
stories will only make them worse and make them grow up to be insecure
adolescents and tortured adults. Instead, they must always be
re-assured and made to feel confident. When they wake up screaming at
night, spend some time to comfort then and allay their fears.
Around
the ages of 5 onwards, the eyes of the child widens and adopts its’
individual shape. At this age, you will be able to notice the eyes of
children who are easily stressed. They may droop downwards at the
corner or even develop into “Wolf” eyes where the white are seen
on either side and below the iris. These are sure indication of a
child who is easily stressed and can be extremely anxiety prone. You
may think that childhood is a carefree period, but such children are
sensitive and easily disturbed by violence on television or in the
household and can even find going to school or moving house to be a
great stress on them. They may express their fears by showing their
tantrums, becoming withdrawn, bed-wetting, sleepwalking or having
night terrors. When their fears are express in such a manner, then it
is time for the parents to take time off their busy schedule and focus
on relieving their child’s stress and worries before it leaves an
indelible scar on their personality. If your child has these telltale
features, they need attention and reassurance before it reaches such
traumatic proportions.
If
at these time the whites of their eyes turn blue, then it indicates an
inner fear or trauma that the child is suffering from and is unwilling
or afraid to reveal. Should this occur, the parents should endeavour
to find out what this hidden fear is.
Children
and youngsters who have a cleft chin require more focus and attention
than others. They always seek the limelight and demand to be seen and
heard. To satisfy this inborn craving, enrol them in acting,
dancing or drama classes and allow them to express themselves there.
Register them in a Casting Agency because they will do very well in
front of a camera or an audience. Who knows you might have a budding
Haley Joel Osment on your hands!
Whorls and Crowns
At birth, many
parents and especially grandparents will take note of the hair of the
infant. Scanty curly hair indicates a gentle disposition whereas
strong straight hair can point to a demanding infant but it is the
whorls or the crowns that are fervently counted. One whorl at the top
of the head shows a child who is compliant and filial. Another one or
two whorls especially around the front of the hair line indicates a
stubborn character that will be a non-conformist. Anything more
ensures that the child is an eccentric rebel who will be impossible to
control. The presence of more than two whorls on a child have always
caused great alarm among the older generation especially if they were
Female Fire Horse as this is an indication that they had a problem on
their hand and marrying such young Ladies off would be a difficult
matter as they would not make the ideal quiet, obedient wife! If you
were born between January 21st 1966 to Febuary 8th
1967, check the number of
whorls or crowns you have and then ask yourself is life has been a bed
of roses or has your fiery character been your bane.
Conclusion
Paying
attention to your child’s features can help you to better manage
him. Understanding him can help you guide him through his developing
years when he is totally dependent on you. Before his little character
develops and take root, as his parents, you can mould him to become a
better adjusted human being. Like bamboo, a shoot can be straightened
but a bent matured bamboo branch will break when one tries to
straighten it.
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Callisto ;
Metal Monkey
10-4-80
( 21 years old )
At
21, Callisto still has a baby face with a great deal of
growing up to do. Her forehead shows someone who is
intelligent and has leadership qualities. She should be
encouraged to expose her forehead, as this is a strong feature
in her Face Feng Shui. She should also ensure that her
forehead is always clear of pimples, blackhead and warts which
can weaken its’ prominence. She should also keep it radiance
and free of dark pigmentation as she ages.
To
enhance her Face Luck, she has to define and draw her eyebrows
well so that it frames and protects her eyes. I do not advice
her to tattoo or embroidery her eyebrows as her face is still
changing and the permanency of such cosmetic treatments may
not harmonise with her face as she matures.
Her
close-set eyes indicate a self-concerned person who may be
accused of being self centred and egocentric. This could be
the case with Callisto as her birthdate does indicate these
characteristics as well. To have a life of harmony she should
be more emotionally sensitive to the emotions and feelings of
others and to be more tolerant and kind.
A
hurdle is predicted by her weak eyebrows around the ages of
31-33. If she can alter certain difficult character traits she
has like her pride, intolerance and impatience, she can
minimize the problems during those years. But with a person
like Callisto she always feels that she is right and only
experience of life can show her the Light of Reality.
Pisces;
Water Dog
23-2-82
( 19 years old )
Pisces
appears to be confused Water Dog who is not satisfied with her
choice of her Education path in Chemical Engineering. From her
birthdate, her choice is compatible. The hesitation could be
that Pisces is impatient and the length of time she would take
to get the degree is frightening her.
From
her ears, especially the Dragon Ear, it is noticed that there
is a lack of confidence in her and she is getting “cold
feet” worrying if she can in fact successfully complete her
course. Be reassured Pisces, that if you concentrate and focus
your attention on what’s at hand, you will accomplish what
you set out to do.
Pisces
has also mentioned that she has been labelled as
“snobbish” and wishes to know how she can alter this
impression she has created. From her face, there is no sign of
arrogance but there is an abruptness and impatient look in her
eyes that may have given rise to her problem. Pisces should
try to counter this character as it is conceived as being
arrogant and obviously causing her concern. Pisces should slow
down in every way she can, in speech, movement and manner. She
could also try to be more tolerant.
To
enhance her Face Luck, she should grow her hair longer and
change her spectacle frame to something which softens her
eyes.
Purple,
Turquoise, Green, Cream are her lucky colours and she should
wear these colours to soften the aura of her face.
Ophilea ;
Earth Horse
20-2-78 ( 23
years old )
Earth Horses
are the most grounded and least highly strung of all the
Horses. Ophilea the Earth Horse have these qualities however,
her birthdate, which includes the date and month, has included
a strong water element which can result in a contradiction as
water can make Ophilea insecure, indecisive and very
sensitive.
The
position of Ophilea’s ears shows a lack of confidence and
timidness but the shape indicates an inner aggressiveness,
which means that when pushed, she can retaliate and explode
like a volcano. So her friends and husband should not be
fooled by her gentle demeanours.
Ophilea
has made the right choice in her life-partner who is 8 years
older than her as she can feel comforted and protected by his
maturity and understanding.
She
has to be warned of her over-active imagination as she may
imagine things that does not really exist and this can cause
her to become jealous or insecure. She should strive to
stabilise her mood swings and overcome her extreme sensitive
nature.
Husband ;
Metal Dog
29-6-70 ( 31
years old )
The
Husband is a romantic sentimental Metal Dog who has plenty of
love to give. From his ears, his ages of 1-13 were rather
insecure and this has resulted in him having to call upon all
his inner strength to cope with it. This will hold him in good
stead in his adulthood though these childhood insecurities
will still haunt him and can cause him to appear moody and
distant at times.
He
will be a very loving husband though he can be very possessive
and jealous of those he loves. His birthdate does indicate
that he will marry someone out of his race. It also indicates
that he will be very successful in careers that are creative
and artistic. Music is very important for him.
As
Ophilea and her Husband are both very sensitive, they
will have to tread carefully through their marriage and not
allow their sensitivity to get out of hand. They should always
keep the doors of communications open between them and refrain
from sulking silences or uncontrollable tears.
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